8.06.2010

On Friendship

I love my friends. My best friends. They are what get me through life. If any of my best friends are reading this, you know who you are. These are the friends that I can share anything and everything with. We talk like there's no tomorrow and laugh for hours on end. And of course, we fight too. All friends do. And I hate it. But to get the sunshine, you have to deal with the rain, and I've had plenty of rain and sunshine in all my close friendships. But every time I fight with one of my best friends, I wonder if it's really worth it to be their friend. Or if they're really a true friend, because (supposedly) if they were, they wouldn't have let you down.

But life is not a movie and people will always let you down. Always. Why? Because we are all human and we make mistakes. I know I have let my best friends down countless of times as well. So if we were to give up every friend that let us down, we'd have none. Someone once told me, "People are always going to let you down, but it's up to you to decide which ones are worth forgiving." I hope I never forget that. I never want to lose an amazing friend because I was too stubborn to forgive. And I hope that when I let my best friends down, they will be able to forgive me. I found this poem online and I love it so I thought I'd share:

Best Friends
by Melissa Magstaff

Best friends
The title we chose
But what does it mean to be "best friends"?
You should see each other every day?
Well that's not true for you and me
Should silly little fights get in our way?
Only if that's how it's meant to be
Should we give?
Should we borrow?
Should we dance like there's no tomorrow?
Secrets are traded
Privacy invaded
Hugs and smiles are shared
Tears are shed
Love is spread
We know that we both really cared
I smile, you smile
You cry, I cry
I wish, you wish
You die, I die
If you fall
I'll help you up
And if you call
I'll always pick up
Best Friends Forever
The promise we made
And I know in my heart
That it will never fade.

I hope that all my best friends out there know how much I love and care about them. I'm grateful for my friends every single day and they mean the world to me.

"If you're alone, I'll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile. But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me."

8.01.2010

Random thoughts by me

1. If you haven't seen it yet (especially the girls) watch Letters to Juliet. I just saw it on Wednesday and now I can't wait for it to come out on DVD so I can buy it. Cutest chick flick ever! I have to admit that I cried when I saw it. Really though, take my word for it and go see this perfect love story of a movie.

Other movies I've seen recently or would recommend: The Last Song, The Blind Side, The Sorcerer's Apprentice. I'm dying to see Toy Story 3 but I haven't had a chance yet! :(

2. Only 22 days until I move back to school. 3 WEEKS!! This change will be bittersweet, though I have to admit it'll be mostly sweet, just because I can't wait to go back. I'm excited for:
-Dance parties
-Complete freedom
-Lots of English classes
-BOYS
-Guitar class and Jazz class
-A brand new school year to start fresh
-Living with super fun girls (and maybe random roommates who I'll know nothing about)
I'm sad to leave:
-My family (especially Gracie who is, although only 3 years old, definitely my best friend)
-My absolutely wonderful fun day care job (THE BEST JOB I'VE EVER HAD)
-Friends who won't be at BYU with me
-Good cooking by my mom
-Getting together with relatives all the time
-Vacations
-Relaxation (from homework and stress)
-My own room
It seriously doesn't feel like that long ago at all when I was moving away to school (a much more scary experience then). That year just zipped by I guess. Like everyone says, "time flies when you're having fun." It true.

3. I want/need another Carrie Underwood concert to come! Ya, so what if the last one wasn't even a month ago?! I'm obsessed, give me a break. ;)

4. I'm going on a road trip this weekend that hasn't really been planned too much and nine girls are coming. I can't wait. :)

5. I love Sundays. And church. We had such a great lesson today in Relief Society and it was just what I needed to hear. :)

7.28.2010

It Feels Good to be HOME

We got back from Wyoming a little less than an hour and ago and are tired but happy to be home. We had such a fun time and I wish we could have stayed longer! I love being with family. But I was thinking, and it'll be so nice to be in heaven after everything is all done and what a blessing it is that we can all be sealed together as families in this church. Because we won't even need to take vacations to see our relatives in heaven probably. They'll all be there with us and we'll be able to see each other whenever we want. Thinking about that makes me very happy. :) Here are some photos from our crazy fun trip.


















7.27.2010

Oh the Places I'll Go!

I just remembered this great poem/story and wanted to post it cuz it's definitely worth reading. I love it. :)


Oh! The Places You’ll Go!
by Dr. Seuss

Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!

You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.

You’ll look up and down streets. Look’em over with care. About some you will say, “I don’t choose to go there.” With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet, you’re too smart to go down a not-so-good street.

And you may not find any you’ll want to go down. In that case, of course, you’ll head straight out of town. It’s opener there in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen and frequently do to people as brainy and footsy as you.

And when things start to happen, don’t worry. Don’t stew. Just go right along. You’ll start happening too.

Oh! The Places You’ll Go!

You’ll be on your way up!
You’ll be seeing great sights!
You’ll join the high fliers who soar to high heights.

You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have the speed. You’ll pass the whole gang and you’ll soon take the lead. Wherever you fly, you’ll be best of the best. Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.

Except when you don’t.
Because, sometimes, you won’t.

I’m sorry to say so but, sadly, it’s true that Bang-ups and Hang-ups can happen to you.

You can get all hung up in a prickle-ly perch. And your gang will fly on. You’ll be left in a Lurch.

You’ll come down from the Lurch with an unpleasant bump. And the chances are, then, that you’ll be in a Slump.

And when you’re in a Slump, you’re not in for much fun. Un-slumping yourself is not easily done.

You will come to a place where the streets are not marked. Some windows are lighted. But mostly they’re darked. A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin! Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in? How much can you lose? How much can you win?

And if you go in, should you turn left or right…or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite? Or go around back and sneak in from behind? Simple it’s not, I’m afraid you will find, for a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.

You can get so confused that you’ll start in to race down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space, headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.

The Waiting Place…for people just waiting.

Waiting for a train to go or a bus to come, or a plane to go or the mail to come, or the rain to go or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow or waiting around for a Yes or No or waiting for their hair to grow. Everyone is just waiting.

Waiting for the fish to bite or waiting for wind to fly a kite or waiting around for Friday night or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake or a pot to boil, or a Better Break or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants or a wig with curls, or Another Chance. Everyone is just waiting.

No! That’s not for you!
Somehow you’ll escape all that waiting and staying. You’ll find the bright places where Boom Bands are playing. With banner flip-flapping, once more you’ll ride high! Ready for anything under the sky. Ready because you’re that kind of a guy!

Oh, the places you’ll go! There is fun to be done! There are points to be scored. There are games to be won. And the magical things you can do with that ball will make you the winning-est winner of all. Fame! You’ll be famous as famous can be, with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.

Except when they don’t. Because, sometimes, they won’t.

I’m afraid that some times you’ll play lonely games too. Games you can’t win ‘cause you’ll play against you.

All Alone!
Whether you like it or not, Alone will be something you’ll be quite a lot.

And when you’re alone, there’s a very good chance you’ll meet things that scare you right out of your pants. There are some, down the road between hither and yon, that can scare you so much you won’t want to go on.

But on you will go though the weather be foul. On you will go though your enemies prowl. On you will go though the Hakken-Kraks howl. Onward up many a frightening creek, though your arms may get sore and your sneakers may leak. On and on you will hike. And I know you’ll hike far and face up to your problems whatever they are.

You’ll get mixed up, of course, as you already know. You’ll get mixed up with many strange birds as you go. So be sure when you step. Step with care and great tact and remember that Life’s a Great Balancing Act. Just never forget to be dexterous and deft. And never mix up your right foot with your left.

And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and ¾ percent guaranteed.)

Kid, you’ll move mountains!
So…be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray or Mordecai Ale Van Allen O’Shea, you’re off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So…get on your way!

Hope you enjoyed that! Have a happy day and climb high mountains! :) :)

7.23.2010

I'm in Cowboy Country

Yay! We arrived safely here in Wyoming after our 6 hour drive yesterday. I LOVE IT HERE. It is so nice to be able to be here with family and play with cousins and just relax. Last night the adults went out for dinner to celebrate my grandparents' 49th anniversary, while all the cousins stayed home and watched the little kids. It was crazy. And fun. :) Today I went shopping with my mom and got some cute shirts and a new pair of shoes--we always find great deals here in Cheyenne every time we come! Later today I think we might be going with our cousins to see "The Sorcerer's Apprentice."

Tomorrow morning we're going to the Frontier Days parade, which is such a HUGE parade (I'm being super sarcastic). We just go every year for tradition, but the highlight of the parade is watching the horses poop on the road as they come by and laugh at the float with all the drunk people. That's Wyoming for ya. ;) It's so so pretty here though. I wish we didn't have to go home on Tuesday! :(



P.S. Still sick. :( And on vacation of all times! :( :( I think its getting worse...and to top it all off I have a canker sore as well as allergies cuz my grandma has dogs and I'm allergic. Go figure. :P Oh well, have a happy day! :)
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